Good bye Nana & Papa!

In early June my parents left to go back to Medicine Hat, Alberta…. to be reunited with their home and my sister and her family. It was a long journey we all took together while my Dad had treatment for his prostate cancer in BC and we supported my Mom with her health.

I would like to think that we did a good thing for my parents and the deepened relationship between the kids and their grandparents made it all worth it. I also feel that my Dad had the best care that he could possibly get from the BC Cancer Agency in Victoria. He had a great team of doctors treating him and we supported him with comfort, healthy food and lots of socializing. He has to have lots of follow up appointments and will come back in one year for an appointment with his oncologist. We were lucky that he was in BC since Alberta turned down Brachytherapy, which increased his survival odds by 30%! BC granted him the procedure and Dad did great through it all. Through it all we shared some great laughs!

Saying good bye was tough but having our home back was a nice perk. Our home isn’t that big and with one washroom, I have to say I am amazed we made it!

Love you Mom & Dad/ Nana & Papa ♥

 

  

PS… if you are wondering what Claire is doing to Pap’s elbow…for some reason she liked tugging on the loose skin he has there and he thought it was funny. ha ha…kids are hilarious.

Beacon Hill drive in with Nana & Papa

One of our favorite summer activities is to visit Beacon Hill drive in. A staple from Jimmy’s childhood growing up in James Bay 🙂 We had to visit there with Nana & Papa because they were departing shortly to go back home AND my Mom LOVES ice cream. It is her kryptonite 😉

 

Victoria Highland Games

There is a highland games in Victoria each year in May. With my parents in town and my cousin coming from Nanaimo with her highland dancer daughters it seemed like a great year to attend.

I played the bagpipes in my youth and I always enjoy a highland games with the heavy events, bagpipe competitions and dancing. With years of competing at these events and my parents helping it was nice to all go again and reminisce. This was Claire & Rhys first time attending an event. It was a beautiful sunny day and we had a great time.

massed bands

Art fair!

Claire & Rhys are very creative. One day while hanging out at home they decided to create art for sale to make some extra money. They worked so diligently and made a pretty fantastic set-up. Nana & Papa were still staying with us so when it came time to sell their art they made some pretty good money from all of us 🙂

La bohème

Claire & Rhys school organizes students to attend opera events throughout the school year. Claire was super keen to attend so I volunteered to go with her and keep an eye on all the kids who would be attending.

We have never been to an opera before and La bohème was a great one to start with. It was funny and sad and wonderful. Claire really enjoyed it and so did I. It was fun to dress up with my girl 🙂

 

Claire & Rhys turn 8!

The passing of time really does seem to speed up when you have children. Their growth and development is amazing and so fast. To all those people that told us to enjoy every moment as they grow so quickly…you were right!

Claire and Rhys turned 8 on December 17th! This year they wanted to have separate birthday parties. They have always had shared birthdays so this year we were game to try it out — future blog post 🙂

To start we had a little family birthday morning…complete with new pajama onesies, some toys and elf on the shelf greeting the kids. It is our tradition to have a nice breakfast and gifts on the table when the kids wake up. It is hard having your birthday among Christmas activities and decorations. We try to make it extra special for Claire & Rhys.

 

Before 6am wake-up…kids excited and we are tired!

Nana & Papa move in…

September was a tough month. My Mom was diagnosed with dementia and my Dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer… just days apart.

For my Dad’s cancer treatment he would have to travel quite far from where they live in Alberta. This would involve a lot of driving in the winter months, hotel stays, my Mom being left alone in the hospital, restaurant food etc.  Jimmy & I decided it would be best if my Dad had treatment in Victoria so we could support them with healthy cooking, a cozy place to stay and the BC cancer clinic is just 5 minutes away from us. Luckily my Dad’s doctors in Alberta agreed that being treated in BC was the best option.

My parents moved into our home late November. We thought it would just be 3 months but it turned into 6 months as my Dad’s treatment was delayed. Not going to lie…it was tough. It isn’t easy sharing a small home with your parents/ in-laws. However, my Dad did great through his treatment and my Mom did great as well. They had a personal trainer, went on daily walks, ate healthy food and my Mom was seeing a wonderful Naturopath who specializes in cognitive health. The fact I haven’t lived with my parents since I was 17 and that these are Claire & Rhys only living grandparents made the time they spent with us memorable and special regardless of the difficulties. A BIG thanks to Jimmy for being as patient as he could be with his set-in-their ways in-laws taking over our space 🙂

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This is a photo of my parents (Tricia & Vern) in Mexico on a trip we shared in 2016 ♥